A Pan-Sexual Wiccan

Today I spoke to a "Pan-sexual" couple.  That's rite...pan-sexual.  When they told me that I had no idea what they meant.  Apparently it means a person who intentionally seeks a relationship with a person who is cross-gender.  Confusing to say the least.  Anyway, the Lord opened up a tremendous discussion with these two people, who aside from being pan-sexual, they were also heavily involved in Wicca.  One of them even told me that they were reincarnated.  When I asked what she was in her "past life" she stated she was a nurse in the Civil War.  No joke.  She shared about how they do magic, spells they cast, etc... Our discussion got heated when they directly asked me if i thought their lifestyle was a sin.  They were looking for a fight.  I was not taking the bait.  They have been hurt obviously in the past from judgmental Christians.  My response I believed challenged them.  They asked if I thought they were going to hell because of their lifestyle.  I asked them if i could be direct.  They said yes.  I responded that they would not be going to hell because of their lifestyle, they would go to hell because they have rejected Jesus Christ as God in the flesh, Savior of man.  This shocked them.  They told me the only thing Christians ever told them was they would go to hell because they were pan-sexual.  How sad that is the message they have heard.  It is unbelief in Jesus Christ that condemns man.We continued our discussion.  After an hour of speaking, I made a statement that they recognized made sense, but themselves were not willing to accept.  I said, "You know, the only difference between you and I is that I have made the choice to let God define what is right and wrong for my life, and you have decided that you decide what is right or wrong for your life.  As long as man can define right and wrong then we are in trouble."  Please pray for these people.  My heart was saddened after this long talk.  It was a great talk, but a very heavy one.